So there’s this triple eclipse that’s on it’s way starting today. To be more precise, it’s three individual eclipses: one today, one June 15, and one July 1. Apparently this is a big deal. Since the eclipse is in Gemini (I think) and the one today is a Solar eclipse which helps in FRESH STARTS. Yes, I know I didn’t need to underline this, but I could really use some help in this department, and isn’t it funny how this is happening just as everything seems to be moving with the house.
Those frummy people from down the street came on Friday to do a home inspection. They have still to make an actual offer, mind you, but just for them to get a feel. You understand. According to the home inspector, everything structurally is sound, it’s just little cosmetic things. The frummy guy is looking to be able to make the lowest offer ever, cause tomorrow he has a contractor coming over to see what it would cost to get the house into livable shape for them. I get it. Really, I do. But make a freaking offer already! I know you have an undying need to be the cheapest Jew on Earth. But really. We’re Jews too, even though you probably don’t think so, and do you really have to drag us through your neurosis to prove a point? We have a price limit too, you see. AND we also have to get out sometime soon. Of course, from what I understand you need to get out of your rental fairly (read: really) soon. So perhaps we can make a deal after all? Guess we’ll have to await and see.
Let’s see, what else? I took a rather extended long Memorial Day weekend. Probably about a week and a half worth. I know, I know. I think I just needed some regroup time you know? This whole house thing is stressful (just wait till the actual negotiations start and we have to start packing and actual apartment hunting! Fun!). And I’ve been focusing on chatting more with guys on OKcupid. I’ve found one who seems really nice. We’ll see. Then, I’ve been keeping a close eye on the Gipper. Also, I know I shouldn’t be. That i need to forget him, even if it is just for now. I need to give the universe the opportunity to straighten things out. I’m trying, it’s just hard. So he’s going away at the end of this wee for about 10 days to the Dominican Republic. I have no idea if the girl he’s been seeing rather regularly is going with, but I kind of get the feeling that she’s not. He said they’re not exclusive. This sounds like it’s her choice. Cause he said something to the effect that it’s not exclusive, but they’re seeing an awful lot of each other. And even though he’s still on the dating sites (I know, I’ve seen him, without him knowing) he’s having a hard time going out with others. But you know, a relationship is usually run by the girl. If she were interested, they’d being exclusive. The fact that they’re not exclusive leads me to believe it’s not going anywhere. He’l figure that out. Anyway, it’s not my concern.
Oh, also, I’ve gotten back onto Meetup.com. I started going to this Sidewalk Cafe group and met some very nice people. Then out of the blue, I get an email from the organizer... she can’t make the meetup this Saturday but doesn’t want to cancel it, would I be able to host in her stead? It was really nice, and I was so touched that she thought of me. I wrote her back and told her of course, I’d live to. So we’re meeting tomorrow night so she can give me the money she’s collected so far and give me the run down. I was the strangest thing, but I’m actually looking forward to being the one to host. Perhaps I should look at that as my calling... hosting events, party planning, that sort of thing. Hmm. Not sue how I feel about that, but it could be interesting.